Ask HN: What is something you deeply care about?
10 blahaj 23 6/7/2025, 11:42:17 PM
Doesn't matter whether it's something big or small, personal or societal, get's a lot of attention or little. What is something you personally find important and care about?
In a car, the driver seat should, in my mind, be manually adjusted. Why? Because if the motor breaks because it has to adjust each time you sit down, and the last person to use the car is my mother or girlfriend, I literally cannot drive my car until it gets fixed because I am too tall.
But something like heated/cooled seats is perfectly fine to have as a luxury, because if my seat cooler fan breaks, I just have a sweaty back as if I didn’t have a seat cooler.
Same with manual transmissions: if I ever have my transmission start acting up and I don’t have the money to bring my car to the shop, I could probably fix it, albeit with a lot of difficulty and cursing. But an automatic? No way in hell.
Plus, my manual lasts longer, stays cooler, tows more, is more fun, provides more control, keeps me more aware and focused while driving, and is a theft deterrent.
You can apply this logic to anything: if the object becomes useless without it, it should be as basic, durable, strong, resilient, and/or foolproof as possible, but when the object would not break without it, it can have as much luxury as desired.
I’ve seen people in Ferraris in LA traffic and it looks like agony.
So I guess context often determines an additional threshold of complexity.
Consent and respect. Kindness as the default.
Care beyond the transactional.
Art as an expression, healing, experience.
Awareness and reasoning beyond thinking and analysis.
In the Civil War movie there’s a moment where the group is cornered by a sniper, pinned to the ground, not knowing if they’ll live beyond a few minutes or not. One of the characters looks at the flowers and the sky and is overtaken by the simple beauty of their existence. This.
Also, I try constantly to be a better father and husband. This too is challenging.
And that will show in your product. It will be kind to your users and customers.
It is however up to us to let that happen or not. Friendship, community, caring support are possible and exist.
The secret of abundance is not having more but giving from a place of generosity.
- My kids
- My family
- My house
- Empathy
- Kindness
- Equality
- Usability
- Design / beauty