Ask HN: Is it immoral not to correct someone else's grammar on social media?

2 amichail 7 9/17/2025, 6:19:32 PM
People use grammar to judge your education and intelligence all the time.

That's why they don't want you correcting other people's grammar online — it threatens a signal they rely on.

But online writing should be judged by content, not grammar.

And so it would seem that failing to correct someone else's grammar online is not just unhelpful — it is immoral.

Comments (7)

uberman · 50m ago
You just said online writing should not be judged on grammar. Why then would it follow that there exists some moral imperative to correct it?

For what it is worth, I used to feel the urge to correct but as I have grown wiser in my years I now see many people smarter than me use grammar in ways i do not. Now i see people who correct others grammar and spelling as pedantic jerks.

amichail · 44m ago
Because most people judge you based on grammar anyway.
cestith · 26m ago
Perhaps we take a lesson from sources like The One Minute Manager (https://isbn.nu/9780007107926) which is also echoed many other places. Praise in public, and correct in private.

Almost every social media system has some way to contact someone without shaming them in the public thread.

pavel_lishin · 57m ago
Actually, the word you're looking for is "unethical", not "immoral".
ycombinatrix · 1h ago
Using incorrect grammar makes me look like a fool. Being corrected helps me look less like a fool in the future.
quickthrowman · 18m ago
> That's why they don't want you correcting other people's grammar online — it threatens a signal they rely on.

Who is “they”?

incomingpain · 39m ago
There is no authority over the english language. Your set of grammar rules are certainly different from virtually everyone else.

>People use grammar to judge your education and intelligence all the time.

You really shouldnt judge others; like ever.

>And so it would seem that failing to correct someone else's grammar online is not just unhelpful — it is immoral.

So you're saying correcting someone's grammar is helpful and moral?

Nobody is stopping you from doing this of course. If you believe it is moral to do, then do it.