I take my 18-month old to daycare each morning, before parking my car a few streets away and catching the train into work. It is terrifying to think that one day I might just forget to drop him off.
My partner usually picks him up in the evening. About 6 months ago she was busy so I did it. I picked him up, drove home, parked the car in the garage and walked straight into the house. Something felt wrong, but it was maybe 30 seconds until I realised I'd left him in the car. He was completely fine, but it put the fear of God into me.
Anyway, I'll contribute my poorly thought out technical solution - a thermal camera that monitors the seats for warm bodies, if you lock the car when present it beeps the horn.
grumpymuppet · 4h ago
There are enormous pressures on a new parent -- stress about getting back to a normal work routine and lack of sleep compound into a unique kind of stress and things start to slip.
For me: I decided I could just slow down a bit. Standing out isn't worth the stress. I don't want to slack, but I don't feel compelled to cram productivity into every moment.
UltraSane · 5h ago
Some parents take their shoe off and put it near the child seat and put it back on when you drop the child off. If you forget to drop the kid off you will realize it when you notice you are wearing only one shoe. There are also apps that you can use to log a drop off so your spouse can see and verify.
Putting a air tag or other tracker on the child with a time based geofence is also pretty effective. It should alarm if the child is not at day care when they should be and alarm if the child is near work since you normally don't bring children to work.
bombcar · 4h ago
AirTag works almost perfectly for that - you can give it area where it shouldn’t alarm when you’re not near it.
The problem is its accuracy- unless your house is sufficiently large or far away from parking it will likely not alarm at being left in the car.
mindslight · 5h ago
How do you pay for the train? I'd come up with something you can stow next to him that you will soon miss if you forget to take it.
chhxdjsj · 6h ago
One of the infinite number of things that would be solved by having an always on companion error checker AI pendant.
westmeal · 5h ago
Congratulations here is 1 billion dollars in vc money
netsharc · 5h ago
Despite the first word of the title being "Anyone", it seemed to me until 5 minutes ago that this is an American thing. But 5 minutes ago ChatGPT gave me links to news stories of this sort of thing happening in many countries.
bombcar · 4h ago
Apparently “dog dies in hot car” is so common worldwide it rarely even reaches the news.
mango7283 · 3h ago
I honestly don't know why you'd think that? People are people everywhere.
byoung2 · 7h ago
My car detects an attached carseat and flashes a warning when the car is turned off: please check back seat. More cars should have this warning
snypher · 6h ago
Please, no more ding ding. You have a backpack on your passenger seat, ding ding, passenger seat belt alert. You're driving at 5mph on private roads, ding ding, driver seatbelt alert. Your TPMS hasn't worked for 3 years, ding ding, 'service tire pressure system'.
Please let the user decide how they want to use the vehicle instead of a one-size-fits-most model. Also, please give me the option to add a baby seat monitor - if I want one!
adambatkin · 6h ago
My car beeps occasionally, but it certainly doesn't rise to the level you describe. Some of them represent real safety issues, even if you don't think they do in that moment. For example, my TPMS has saved alerted me to low tire pressure when I didn't know I had a leak, and the fact that it beeps a couple times every time I start the car is both helpful ("oh right, I need to get that fixed soon") and far from annoying.
Accidentally leaving a kid locked in a car on a hot Summer day is beyond horrific. How many kids should die before we think the annoyance of an extra beep would be worth it?
netsharc · 6h ago
The problem is that the driver might have so many beeps, that they decide to ignore yet another beep.
I suppose a beep that sounds very different would get their attention, like for pilots in plane cockpits. A terrible stand-up comedian suggestion would be to reuse the plane's "retard, retard!" for parents who forget their kids...
mango7283 · 3h ago
I'd bet plenty of parents of given the option will not turn it on because "oh this will not happen to me, unlike those other neglectful parents"
toomuchtodo · 6h ago
It is entirely possible to make this user configurable with existing vehicle sensors.
bombcar · 4h ago
The problem is it ALWAYS dings (the car seat is always there or it detects door openings) and so it just gets ignored along with the fifty other billion warnings it gives.
Which is insane because it obviously has much more intelligent sensors - if I try to lock the doors with the windows down and the wind blowing it screams bloody murder and refuses to lock because it detects motion. Windows up and someone moving? Same thing.
But it doesn’t beep based on that.
UltraSane · 5h ago
Recognizing a child is alone in a car seat seems like something modern machine image recognition should be able to do reliably. If the child is alone in a car and the temperature is not safe then it could honk the horn and announce there is a child in the car and call 911 and the parents
My partner usually picks him up in the evening. About 6 months ago she was busy so I did it. I picked him up, drove home, parked the car in the garage and walked straight into the house. Something felt wrong, but it was maybe 30 seconds until I realised I'd left him in the car. He was completely fine, but it put the fear of God into me.
Anyway, I'll contribute my poorly thought out technical solution - a thermal camera that monitors the seats for warm bodies, if you lock the car when present it beeps the horn.
For me: I decided I could just slow down a bit. Standing out isn't worth the stress. I don't want to slack, but I don't feel compelled to cram productivity into every moment.
Putting a air tag or other tracker on the child with a time based geofence is also pretty effective. It should alarm if the child is not at day care when they should be and alarm if the child is near work since you normally don't bring children to work.
The problem is its accuracy- unless your house is sufficiently large or far away from parking it will likely not alarm at being left in the car.
Please let the user decide how they want to use the vehicle instead of a one-size-fits-most model. Also, please give me the option to add a baby seat monitor - if I want one!
Accidentally leaving a kid locked in a car on a hot Summer day is beyond horrific. How many kids should die before we think the annoyance of an extra beep would be worth it?
I suppose a beep that sounds very different would get their attention, like for pilots in plane cockpits. A terrible stand-up comedian suggestion would be to reuse the plane's "retard, retard!" for parents who forget their kids...
Which is insane because it obviously has much more intelligent sensors - if I try to lock the doors with the windows down and the wind blowing it screams bloody murder and refuses to lock because it detects motion. Windows up and someone moving? Same thing.
But it doesn’t beep based on that.