The Birth-Rate Crisis Isn't as Bad as You've Heard–It's Worse

11 littlexsparkee 10 6/30/2025, 2:36:57 PM theatlantic.com ↗

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andsoitis · 4h ago
> Rich countries will all have become like Japan, stagnant and aging.

Stagnation comes from an aversion to risk-taking.

I do not know that it is foregone conclusion that slowing birthrates necessarily has to lead to risk aversion.

bell-cot · 3h ago
Why would a rational young person take the risk (of becoming a parent), when the system they face has been optimized to "crushing costs on me, most benefits to others"?
andsoitis · 3h ago
The risk I'm talking about is trying new things that move civilization forward. That is the risk-taking that prevents stagnation.
toomuchtodo · 3h ago
Can you share what risks we could take that would move civilization forward in a meaningful way that provides benefits?
lo_zamoyski · 2h ago
Some people think technology (like automation and AI) will somehow do the trick, making each workers much more productive. Of course, such technologies tend to lower the prices of goods and services, just like industrialization did. And ultimately, such technology will spread quickly, reducing whatever competitive edge this was supposed to provide.

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lo_zamoyski · 2h ago
First, while we have eliminated the "family wage", which was what allowed American working class families to be supported on one income alone in the 1950s, and we have made things like the housing market cost prohibitive, and wrecked community life, we also have different priorities today. For example, among those who can afford an annual vacation to the Caribbean or a new car or whatever, many would not be willing to give that up if they had to in order to have another child. Keeping up with the Jones's is a thing, and we simply view children as burdensome sacrifices that deprive us of empty self-indulgence rather than great riches and an occasion to grow as a human being.

Second, the obsession with finances is unjustified. What's "enough" to have a child? And will you ever get there? You might hit infertility sooner and then it'll be too late. Having a child is an incredible motivator, because you have a firm and clear and worthy purpose. Your whole life is rearranged, and in a good way. You have descendants and in that sense, you are not alone or the end of the line. When children are a mere possibility, mere phantoms that you hope to afford one day, you won't have the same drive, and it becomes easy to get sidetracked or fall into resignation.

silverquiet · 1h ago
I neither have children nor travel often, but I believe that an annual Caribbean vacation is significantly cheaper than a child. I don't doubt that children can be as you say; that they provide a motivation and sense of purpose for their parents. But clearly that is not the case for all as the number of un-involved parents would suggest.

For myself, I think economic anxiety/precarity has been one of the strongest motivators for never wanting children. As I've faced layoffs, I've often thought to myself, "at least I don't have any kids depending on me" and worried for my coworkers who did. It doesn't help that I face some medical issues either.

But I think more than anything, I just don't want to force some poor child into this world/economic system that we have created that I've never really felt comfortable in. I used to think that this made me some kind of strange outlier, but more and more, given that we see ever decreasing fertility, perhaps I was merely early to this feeling.

littlexsparkee · 4h ago
bell-cot · 4h ago
I've noticed that stories about the birth-rate crisis - or about the affordable housing crisis, or similar "the old and the 1% impose ever-heavier burdens on the young and the 99%" trends - always assume that social stability is unbreakable.

Sadly, I suspect that comforting assumption will prove horribly wrong.

throwaway843 · 4h ago
Still, cotton underwear.