The Problem with Teens Isn't Smartphones–It's Their Families

69 illinx 61 5/16/2025, 11:03:03 AM grimoiremanor.substack.com ↗

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lolinder · 8h ago
This article's methodology leaves a lot to be desired. They throw out dozens of studies with a flippant, poorly justified dismissal and then proceed to take a cursory, high-level glance over a single other study that supported their desired conclusion. Having given that study a passing thought they proceed to wonder at "just how glaring this data is" from that single report and how it is that everyone else can't see it.

Ironically, the whole thing reads like someone did all the research and writing on a smartphone and didn't take the time to really construct an argument.

I don't disagree with the title—my assumption is also that parenting would have the largest impact—but the article does a very bad job justifying it and the conclusion that therefore technology isn't worth talking about is absurd. We do a lot of research that is aimed at helping out with marginal gains because marginal gains matter! The entire field of K-12 education exists to be a marginal improvement on top of what parents are already offering. Should we stop researching that field because there's evidence that parents are the single biggest factor in educational outcomes?

Most of our policy choices surrounding children are there explicitly to be a safety net for children whose parents can't provide the environment that they need.

bko · 7h ago
I don't see why teen suicide rate is the definitive measure of how well children are doing. It's still extremely rare. Why not focus on anti-depressants? Surely kids being on a lot of meds is a sign something is off.

Everyone knows phones are a net negative for most children. You really don't need a study. Just go check out a local bus stop and see kids staring at their phones.

> The median amount of time a teenager in the US spends on their phone each week is estimated to be around 31 to 32 hours.

Do we think this is good? How confident are you that this is not harmful? Would you be willing to bet your kids development on it?

https://explodingtopics.com/blog/smartphone-usage-stats

williamcotton · 7h ago
> Surely kids being on a lot of meds is a sign something is off.

Couldn't this just be a sign of overmedication? I can't see a clear cut causal relationship here.

BobaFloutist · 6h ago
It could also be a sign of appropriate medication. What if depression is actually just that naturally prevalent, and anti-depressants, despite the tradeoffs, are actually worth it?

I understand the instinct to be concerned about prescribing indefinite, powerful, psychoactive substances to teenagers, but just because it's understandable doesn't mean it's necessarily correct.

7speter · 6h ago
I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone use suicide rates as a sole metric for mental health crises by demographic population.
luqtas · 7h ago
the entire field of K-12 education also is based on a bunch of "non sense" historical stuff, like tests; which came from industrial revolution times where owners wanted to check who would be less likely to break their expensive machines by comparing who remembered more operation steps... which by now pedagogic science knows it's a great way to retain information but as it's done in most school environments is a completely absurd. go try to suggest a change on the system or even implement something effective, cheap and well known as retrieval practice on the school schedule

transfer of learning is a scientific fact but what are the applications of a bunch of stuff we need to learn as teens? Linus Pauling's thesis that won a Nobel? again, transfer of learning isn't a magic bullet that its effects spans across everything you do in your life, nor it's an easy concept to explain to children and get them convinced that learning stuff that you'll forget in some months or years is actually good!

then we have the amount of stuff parsed to children. take a look at data showing the amount of subjects of science taught on North Americans schools and Japanese; now take a look which culture has a better understanding of science!

etc.

schools needs to grow on other areas than parsing knowledge of the natural world, like emotional resilience, collaboration skills, how to deal with grief, not increasing score metrics that also has a problem on its own, like letting behind some districts (thus making it worse) that don't have resources to keep with advancement; and to make a counterpoint with the website OP, i strongly believe and trust professionals teaching children these skills than a bunch of unprepared parents that i have my doubts even half of them actually spend any time reading evidence based tips on how to grow children, let alone meta-thinking about their relationship with them

the_snooze · 7h ago
>schools needs to grow on other areas than parsing knowledge of the natural world, like emotional resilience, collaboration skills, how to deal with grief

I too support more investment in good old fashioned sports and arts.

troyvit · 7h ago
I think one of the problems is that Substack has as much editorial oversight as a personal blog. Despite that we treat its contents as articles instead of opinion pieces that see no fact checking beyond what we in the commons bring up in separate forums.
lolinder · 7h ago
I would have used the word 'article' for any post in this format and I don't view that as giving it an elevated status. I didn't even notice it was Substack and certainly don't view Substack as any different than WordPress or Medium for reliability.

It's an article of writing the way that a shirt is an article of clothing.

arp242 · 8h ago
This post seems to be a McNamara fallacy: "if it can't be quantified and measured then its irrelevant and can be ignored".

Look, I don't have any answers here. I'm not involved with teens. I don't really know much about this and maybe the author is correct. But I can spot a bad argument, and fixating only on suicide data and dismissing everything else as "unreliable" (based on a single small study) doesn't seem the right approach.

In addition "mental health" is complex and most people suffering from poor mental health don't commit suicide. There are different types of "mental heath" problems one can have, and it seems entirely plausible that some lead to relatively high rates of suicide and others have much lower rates.

NikolaNovak · 8h ago
I disagree with the data premise that only suicide data is valid.

For example, one possibility is that we DO have mental health crisis in young population, but availability and proficiency of mental health today avoids the suicide scenario. Plus there are tremendous number of significant mental issues which might not result in that most drastic of outcomes. Not claiming that's the case, just that the very first paragraph of data selection feels massively arbitrary and hand-waved.

wintermutestwin · 7h ago
In 1988, California enacted a mental health parity law which private insurers to provide equal coverage for mental health and substance use disorder treatments, including services for children. There was a resultant explosion of rehab centers for kids opening in CA. Kids (mostly mid-upper class white kids) got put into rehab centers en masse. Suddenly, every parent in a dysfunctional family could point their fingers at the ubiquitous use of drugs (mostly alcohol and cannabis) among teens and thus absolve themselves of their personal failings as a parent.

Of course I am not arguing that kegger parties and smoking weed were positive things for kids, and certainly some small % of these kids were doing worse drugs, but I am quite certain from my own (fairly broad) annecdata that the root cause of these kids' self destructive behavior was their fucked up families.

And now parents can point their fingers at social media. History repeats, but the difference this time is that kids aren't put into rehabs away from the family dysfunction and in an environment where some degree of self examination and self work is promoted.

When I was very young, I thought that my family dysfunction was an outlier, but my experiences in life lead me to believe that it is the norm and that healthy families are the outlier. Of course, that's my own experience, but I am a greybeard now and have interacted with a large number of individuals across the full spectrum of social strata so the assessment of my anecdata sure seems more poignant with each passing year...

haswell · 8h ago
Anecdotally, almost everyone I know laments the decline of real social contact in recent years, and everywhere I go, people are buried in their phones, ignoring the real world around them. Social media discourse is more toxic than ever, and yet it continues to be a major aspect of people’s social contact.

For sake of argument, let’s say the issue is their families. Why are so many families turning out to be harmful environments?

My pet theory is that this erosion of social contact and propagation of toxicity is affecting all of us, so it seems natural that many family environments will suffer.

I think it’s too simplistic to conclude that “teens using phones” is the whole issue, but do think that phones and the underlying tech they currently represent is responsible for causing major systemic issues that in turn tend to effect teens more.

Singling out the suicide rate as a proxy for mental health seems like a major problem.

j-bos · 3h ago
I've noticed people make much less eye contact with strangers, when I was young I only ever saw that in NYC (I imagines the same in other big cities). Today I see that everywhere except the boonies, smaller than small towns.
soupfordummies · 5h ago
"It's not the phones, it's the parents (who are on their phones nearly as much)"
abnercoimbre · 3h ago
I recently bought a Rugrats Comic Book. Re-imagined for modern times, it shows how the babies are "being watched" by some all-knowing entity while the adults are absent in their formative years.

SPOILER ALERT BELOW.

The comic is a criticism of surveillance devices on children and the smartphone addiction of adults. (Even the adults were zombified in their interactions with each other.) Tommy's solution was to rally the babies to drown all devices in water -- and to continue breaking them until their parents gave up buying new ones.

nateburke · 8h ago
Why does the chart only include data from 2003, 2020, and 2023?

I am also curious about the mentioning of Indian males in the text alongside native American women, with the chart excluding Indian males, this is also somewhat confusing.

It is hard to get a sense of the actual data supporting the claims in the article.

decode · 8h ago
> I am also curious about the mentioning of Indian males in the text alongside native American women, with the chart excluding Indian males, this is also somewhat confusing.

I also found this confusing at first, but I realized that the author uses "American Indian" and "Native American" interchangeably. In the chart, this group is labeled "Native American Men".

ndileas · 8h ago
Yeah, this is more journalism than science.
_rpxpx · 8h ago
Suicide rates are not a good metric of mental illness: they are a function of several things, most obviously opportunity and access to a means. E.g., in the UK, farmers have a disproportionately high rate of suicide because they have unusually ready access to guns. This post also distinguishes itself in speaking arrogantly about teens without bothering to check any record of what they have to say themselves. I think movements like "Luddite Club" are only going to accelerate, and they will be led by young women. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/02/opinion/teen-luddite-smar...
ayushrodrigues · 8h ago
Suicide rate is a strange metric to choose here. I believe smartphones are exceptionally damaging to teens, but the biggest effect is around their attention span and motivation.

The biggest mental health effect is the ADHD epidemic it's bringing on.

xrhobo · 5h ago
Tiktok especially.

The only time I have ever seen Tiktok videos is from dating someone younger and watching them engage with Tiktok over their shoulder out of curiosity.

To me, it felt like my brain was being scrambled. The worst part was I could tell they were addicted to that same feeling.

It is not really fair if a person is addicted to having their brain scrambled while I found the experience absolutely horrendous.

If I engage with Tolstoy/Dostoevsky audiobooks in my free time instead of having my brain scrambled, there is obviously going to be huge carry over to all sorts of other activities. Focusing at work is just one of them.

bluGill · 7h ago
Is it bringing on ADHD? It appears to me more like now that we can help people with ADHD it is worth the bother to diagnose people with it so they can get help. I'm pretty sure I have some rare things myself, but a quick investigation suggests there is nothing useful that could be done if I was diagnosed it isn't worth bothering to get an official diagnosis.
danielvf · 8h ago
As almost every other commenter here has said, this is just a bad article in practically every way. It's quite possible that the problem isn't smart phones, but this article completely fails to show this.

Even the suicide data that they decide is the proper measure of mental health, and according to them proves that teens don't have a problem, shows a 2x increase in teen girl suicide.

I'm going to so something I almost never do, and flag, since this is just bait. I would love to read a case for this with a better argument however.

robg · 8h ago
I’ve been looking at our school district’s data (top 10 by size in the country, almost 200k kids) and kids aren’t sleeping enough, and tech use is likely a big driver. Less than 20% of our 12th graders report getting 7 or more hours a night of sleep. The pediatric recommendation is 8-10 hours for those 12-18 years old (9-12 hours for ages 6-12). Sleep deprivation is well-documented as linked to mental health concerns like ADHD, anxiety, and depression. Sleep is how the brain washes away gunk (see also the glymphatic nervous system).

That said I have little doubt that less aware families are not enforcing sleep times as much as they used to. The moral panics on TVs and video games came with the advent of the tech then hung around for decades. People knew that kids awake late at night was bad for them. With phones, how many high schoolers have them in their rooms next to their beds? How many of us do?

xlii · 8h ago
> That’s not actually true…there’s little evidence of a crisis at all in most European countries.

There's plenty of evidence, but Europe is not US. US is federated, but has single entity that gather information in one language. Europe is much more fragmented and outside of some EU stats (that are sometimes incomplete) there isn't a single source of truth to get.

The reality is simple: it's a little bit of everything. Parents are busting their ass to pay for expensive housing and overall high costs of living. Attention is grabbed by greedy corps that don't care if you get depressed about your situation as long as they get their euro/dollar/whatever and kids are neck deep in illusion of great created by influencers.

alistairSH · 8h ago
First it was rock and roll, then video games, then cell phones. When all along it’s been lack of mental health care in general. This shouldn’t be a surprise.
catapart · 7h ago
Yeah; this all rings pretty sound to me. I've worked with 14-17 year olds most of my adult life and everything comes down to how the kid does in their "home" environment. More specifically, how their closest people treat them, rather than any action they are taking.

Kids - even 17 year olds - are infantalized and treated as if they don't have anything to contribute. They are "supposed" to just do what they are told and follow a "normal" path of going to school and then getting a job and working. A school where they aren't allowed to learn about what they are interested in, and can only learn the government-mandated testable knowledge. A job that will force them to wake up early and commute late and leave them with no time or energy to engage in the hobbies that they never actually cultivated because doing metalworking is too loud and doing programming is wasting time on a computer and flight training is too expensive and, and, and, and...

The amount of success I've had just VALIDATING kids is fucking incredible. Talk to them as if their idea is worth hearing, and then ask them questions that make them challenge their own ideas. Whether it's about a project they think would be cool, or about how they feel about something that happened with their parents. When they can devote time to think about it, without feeling like discussing it is an attack on anyone or an imposition to the listener - they sort shit out just like anyone else.

And whenever I find myself kind of marveling at - say - an 11 year old speaking with what feels like emotional intelligence beyond their years, I remember that in the early 1900s, 11 year old's might have been fucking floor managers at a textile industry, or pickaxe-swinging coal miners. Kids are entirely capable at 11 years old and it only comes out if you engage them in ways that hone that capability. Which should obviously NEVER be forced or coerced labor. But you can talk to them like they are adults.

In any case, I've been mentoring kids since before cell phones and not a damn thing has changed. If the kid's distracted, you don't need to worry about what is able to distract them - you need to worry about why they were bored enough (or preoccupied) to get distracted in the first place. And that's really the heart of the whole thing: people really want for the kids or the "mentally infirm" or the OTHER to have to do better when the simple truth is that the person needs to be doing better. The parent, the teacher, the mentor, the friend; they have to be meeting the HUMAN BEING (who happens to be a child) at their level rather than feeling disappointed that the kid didn't meet them at some other level.

bluGill · 5h ago
I suspect you are cherry-picking. Not that your observations are wrong, but your validating kids seems like something that is very important a set of kids that I could see someone having a job dealing with, but that doesn't mean all kids need that - the set that doesn't isn't the set you will be working with.

> A school where they aren't allowed to learn about what they are interested in, and can only learn the government-mandated testable knowledge

We need to be careful here. While kids should have some opportunities for what they are interested in, the world doesn't need many professional video game or sport players. We need to force kids who are really interested in some things to learn skills that the world will need once they grow up. We are not in a "post scarcity" world, and there is no reason to think we will be, so they need to learn useful skills to contribute to society. It doesn't take long to teach someone to run a pick-axe (assuming they are physically able and we don't care much about safety) - but glad the world needs skills that are much harder to learn.

catapart · 5h ago
The kids I worked with were engaged in an entertainment opportunity, rather than some kind of mentorship for troubled youths, or scholarship. I worked with posh little kiddos and literal charity cases (kids enrolled via charity organizations) and everything in between. Some kids were "forced" to be there, some kids weren't. Some kids were physically healthy, some kids were ailed.

I won't belabor the point, but while I will always provide for bias in my consideration, my sample subjects are the absolute least of my concerns. It was a wide enough variety, and I've compared it to enough adult-oriented psychoanalytical literature, that I feel comfortable speaking confidently about it.

As far as needing to be careful, I agree! We should ALWAYS be careful when doing things in the interest of other people and children especially. I fully support mandatory learning because even aside from practical skills, an ignorant populace is empirically more likely to foment and tolerate a fascist government. I think kids should be forced to learn all kinds of things, and a much wider variety of things than we currently teach. Where I make the distinction is that I think they should also be ALLOWED to learn the things they WANT to learn. By which I mean we shouldn't just tolerate it, we should make explicit space for it. Whatever it is. And that can be distasteful to a lot of people, but the situation - now - is that a kid CAN learn about anything they want to learn about, via the internet, so your option is to facilitate that curiosity into either satisfied disinterest or an upstanding pursuit, or to calcify it as a taboo.

It may be audacious to talk to kids in graphic or sensational terms about violence, but when their school getting shot up is a real daily possibility, it's disingenuous to NOT talk about it. THEY will be talking about it. So when YOU don't talk about it, they can feel how artificial it seems, just like anyone else.

So, yes: learn arithmetic, so you can learn algebra, so you can learn geometry, so you can learn physics. But if we have to cut chemistry to make room for some individual learning time, let's do it. Shove the practical parts of it into a cooking class and leave anything more complex to higher or elective ed.

sceptic123 · 7h ago
Yes, I feel that a lot of things touted are the symptoms and not the causes. Interested to know if the quantity of kids you are seeing having problems is increasing though?
catapart · 5h ago
Well, for starters, I haven't been doing that kind of work since just before COVID, so I don't know if my metrics would still mean anything.

But, that aside, it's an odd thing to try to contextualize. Do I THINK that there were more kids that were "troubled"? No, anecdotally, I don't think I saw anything that I would consider alarming. But I never really saw any kid as "troubled". Just "focusing on the wrong thing" or "thinking about it in a confusing way", or "trying to reconcile two incompatible ideas/philosophies", etc.

Meanwhile, my peers would complain about things being "worse" or specific kids being "unable to work with" or whatever. But when the kids were shuffled and it was my time to work with them, I didn't really have any issues. There were kids trying to tear down the walls, sure, but that's a lot of fun if you chase it. And, more importantly, it's physically exhausting. So sooner than later, all of the kids just want to chill. And once they're chill, they like to discuss all kinds of things. Especially if they can be related to the physical activities they were just doing. And since kids are generally ignorant, you can take all kinds of winding paths of rhetoric to link one idea to another, and they tend to stay excited to chase the logic (learning is fun; it's part of why we play video games).

So, answering your question is kind of odd because while I would say "no", that may not be your standard of measurement and I'm just one anecdote anyway. If the statistics say it's getting "worse", I can trust that, personally. Just - like you said - I tend to think of the "worse" as describing the cause, not the symptom.

maerch · 8h ago
Whenever I see arguments about past scapegoats, something about them doesn’t sit right with me.

Some things today are simply more addictive than others—and often deliberately designed that way by large corporations. More importantly, they’re everywhere and carry intense peer pressure. I never experienced that with the things people used to worry about. I listened to a lot of so-called “devil’s music” and played plenty of first-person shooters, and it was never quite the same.

abnercoimbre · 3h ago
The false equivalence is always striking, and your reasonable counterargument usually gets dismissed too. I wish I could unravel the mysteries behind our peers defending the status quo so much.
agumonkey · 8h ago
Not disagreeing but this new era brought its share of issues that didn't exist before, from social fame anxiety, sexuality/gender anxiety, news doomscrolling ..

Also, sadly, psychology is hyper relativistic.. the same person with a different psychological education can become suicidal or give zero damn about the same situation.

jffhn · 7h ago
>the same person with a different psychological education can become suicidal or give zero damn about the same situation

Or even like it. Reminds me of a quote about solitude: "I live on what others die of." (Michelangelo)

XorNot · 8h ago
There is no evidence this is a new era, rather then just one on which those things are actually talked about.

Gay people existed well before smartphones, you don't think sexuality anxiety might've been a significant issue for people in less tolerant societies?

agumonkey · 5h ago
Not in the same way at all. People knew it was rejected so you live your fake life and hide your desires for when / where you can. Now it's a question whether people should or shouldn't accept you, you spend more time in indecision and worries. People might suffer, but not the same.
rightbyte · 8h ago
In the story of the boy that cried wolf there was a wolf in the end and smartphones might very well be one.
thomassmith65 · 8h ago
This assumes rock'n'roll and video games did not cause widespread societal problems, which actually is hard to determine conclusively.

Yes, most of us have a gut instinct that no harm was done, but that's likely down to presentism and selective perception.

ashoeafoot · 8h ago
? So, the goal is not to prevent or reduce trauma, but treat it more often once it happens ? What nonsense is that? Do you get a per patient kuckback by the psychiatrist guuld and associated parties?
alistairSH · 7h ago
Yeah, I get kickbacks when I state mental health care in the US is mediocre. /s

Get the fuck out with that nonsense.

ashoeafoot · 5h ago
The goal should never ever be bandaid first, always reduce, stop stabbing first, bandaging second.
carlosjobim · 8h ago
Don't you think rap music has a negative influence? Or pornography?

When was it decided that it's not true that popular culture and technology can have a destructive influence on people? This was decided before I was born, so why should it be my duty to accept it as true?

The more I notice this, the more crazy it seems. When was it decided that the TV should be center in every home and treated like the most important thing in life? Those are just people in a studio, yet most people and especially old people consider those people to be gods, deserving the greatest reverence. Who told them to buy a TV and put it into their homes? How could that become normal?

orwin · 7h ago
Because before rap, it was rnb. Before RnB, it was Rock. Before Rock, it was Jazz, before Jazz, it was Blues, and before Blues, it was any music containing thirds or sevenths.

Popular music is just that: popular, and since people like to appear distinct from the masses, some do it via music.

I don't disagree with the rest, but 'rap music has a negative influence' is extremely reactionary.

alistairSH · 7h ago
Anything can cause harm in the extreme.

At the same time, society tends to blame the shiny new thing for all that ails it. And there's always a shiny new thing.

ndileas · 8h ago
I think the core observation makes intuitive sense. But that's not the same thing as it being true.

These issues are too subtle, complicated, and distributed for current social science tools. I kind of think the whole idea of science being able to improve societal well-being beyond the basics is misguided at this point.

huem0n · 8h ago
I think they leave out a lot of evidence, like rates of bullying-and getting bullied, being dramatically higher with cell phones. I'm not convinced that one correlation being murky == teen social media and smartphones are not a problem at all.
codeduck · 8h ago
I call shenanigans on this. Suicide rates are not a reliable signal for underlying mental health issues in isolation

Bullying via social media and group chats is endemic, and phones function as a massive signal amplifier in this regard.

Furthermore, there is a growing body of evidence which link early smartphone use to poor outcomes in social skills, degraded critical thinking ability, and elevated rates of depression.

This feels very much like someone picking data to fit their hypothesis.

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EduardLev · 8h ago
I'll echo the other comments in saying that I believe this to be not convincingly argued at best and at worst condescending. Terms like "fairly obvious", implying parents "don't want to hear something" feels to me an oversimplification, etc
ryandrake · 8h ago
You can’t tell your kid not to smoke if you smoke 2 packs a day, and you can’t tell your kid not to get addicted to social media if you’re addicted to social media. Kids are great at detecting hypocrisy. Parents need to set a better example with their own behavior.
mavsman · 8h ago
If smartphone companies and social media companies are stating that their products are causing a mental health crisis, there's probably some merit to that.
ChrisMarshallNY · 8h ago
I think that the example our generation sets, is pretty important.

> "What you do speaks so loudly, I can't hear what you're saying."

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

For example, I know that I can get fairly cranky about ageism in tech, but I also understand where some of it comes from. My generation has been a pretty big dumpster fire, when it comes to examples. We're the Gordon Gecko "Greed is Good" generation. Our kids kind of took the brunt of it, and, in my opinion, the world is on fire, basically due to our generation's selfishness (and we're not done, yet).

Eddy_Viscosity2 · 8h ago
Sadly, looking back through history you'll see that every generation is the "greed is good" generation.
roxolotl · 8h ago
It’s the same but different. Gen X Cops is a great song about this. “Each generation makes its own apology”

https://genius.com/Vampire-weekend-gen-x-cops-lyrics

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kW9Qk00693c

graemep · 8h ago
I do not think that is true.

While there are always greedy and selfish people, celebrating greed was new.

bko · 8h ago
Usually when statistics conflict with whats in front of your eyes, its the statistics that are wrong.

I don't know about suicide rates but let's look at antidepressants. From 2016 to 2022, the monthly antidepressant dispensing rate among U.S. adolescents increased by 66.3%. This has been a steady increase, not just covid.

Anyone with teenagers in their home knows that a lot of kids are medicated and have high level of angst. Everyone knows that social media is almost always a net negative on their self image and overall well being. That's not to mention the sexualization of children on TikTok and Instagram and the perverse incentive now that only fans is an option and increasingly normalized.

Children on phones are distracted. I'm even distracted and I have pretty high self control. They don't belong anywhere near a school. Maybe they're neutral, but are we really willing to bet your children's well-being on that? Shouldn't we try to have them live a life more similar to that of every other teenager born before 1990?

Parents experience similar negative consequences of social media doom-scrolling. I don't need a study to tell me whats right in front of my eyes.

https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/153/3/e20230...

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eimrine · 8h ago
Stupid parents raise stupid kids, no surprises. Schools won't fix that, their goal is to ēducō, so producing smart kids were never the goal of Prussian-style education.
spacemadness · 5h ago
My eye hit the nazi symbol right next to his name then I scrolled and saw “white people” in the graph and noped the hell out of this one.
jacknews · 6h ago
So basically the problem is that the parents are stuck to their phones, and are neglecting the kids. same same.
llm_nerd · 8h ago
Suicide rate isn't the singular outcome of mental health problems. Saying there isn't a mental health crisis because teen girls don't successfully kill themselves as much as middle aged white men seems spectacularly ill-conceived.

I also was thrown off by the use of the word "Indian". I know "American Indian" is still used by the US government and in many circles, but it is jarring to see it like this. Literally thought it was actual transplants from India that were the subject, and was confused why the chart was showing "Native American" instead.

And FWIW, I don't think smartphones are the cause of mental health issues, even if it's an easy target. And bullying was prevalent long before we had social media. Just on the theme of speculating, I think the ennui of youth comes from the wider world. AGW, the growing political divide, the tendency of everyone to catastrophize and fear monger about literally everything -- if you slightly disagree with a choice, hold it as guaranteeing the end of humanity (see Elon Musk as a hilarious proto-example of this) -- to the point where everything feels broken and dire. And more recently teens live in a world where there aren't even really career hopes because everything, we are told, is going to be done by robots and AI.