What makes you still work for Meta, when it's clear how toxic the company is?

45 camillomiller 33 8/15/2025, 10:22:23 AM
The more I read about Zuckerberg's thoughts on the future of AI, and the more it's unveiled about the shady practices the company has been engaging in for more than a decade, the more I can't find an answer to a simple question: how can so many brilliant, probably ethically sound people, still work for such a company?

I'm focusing on Meta, but the same goes for Palantir and such ilk of companies whose clear and only output is a net negative for society.

Is it really just money? Or do you actually believe these companies are not the societal wrecking balls they are? Would you argue that their toxicity itself is not as evident as I claim? You just don't give a damn?

I understand this is a provocative question, but bear with me and possibly change my mind. I'm genuinely curious.

Comments (33)

smokel · 51m ago
There are many places at Meta that seem to be quite interesting for researchers. You get to play with a lot of hardware, with other talented people, and you can open-source some of your work.

It's all a slippery slope anyway. If you were to work for yourself and publish your research, people might do bad things with it anyway. Consider YOLO [1] as an example of where things might have gone wrong. Another fine example is Fritz Haber [2], who intended some of his inventions for good, some for bad, but eventually society found a way to reverse his intentions.

Given that most computer scientists are pretty good at putting things in perspective, they might come to the conclusion that working for Meta isn't so bad in the grander scheme of things. Slaving away in academia and having your work ignored isn't a very tempting alternative.

Instead of considering how we can make smart people stop working for idiots, it might be more fruitful to spread the idea that we should stop worshipping idiots altogether. If there is one thing I miss from the days when religion was still a thing, it is this suggestion [3].

[1] https://www.deeplearning.ai/the-batch/code-no-evil/

[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fritz_Haber

[3] Exodus 20:3-5

harmonic18374 · 40m ago
I know someone (not an engineer) who was applying to jobs for a long time and got a 100% pay increase from moving to Meta, about $60k -> $120k. In such circumstances, it is difficult to turn down such a job. You are only one small part of the machine and it is such a quality of life increase (in USA), I cannot imagine many people saying no.

Some other common reasons that I disagree with, but are quite defensible:

"Well-targeted advertising is a net positive, or at least not hugely negative, for the world. Better targeting has helped many small businesses succeed where they would otherwise not been able to get customers"

"I am working on account security/React/ML/etc which is a good thing. I don't endorse all the bad things"

"It is more complicated than it seems, and most people at Meta try to do the right thing"

"I might as well work at the company and try to make it better from the inside" (while making lots of money)

can16358p · 1h ago
Not working for any of them but given everything else equal, I'd pick Meta over Palantir under any circumstance, if I were to work for one of them.
herbst · 1h ago
That's the most American comment. Inventing a 2 party idea when there is none and justify their positions based on that.
rbanffy · 30m ago
Sure. Between Meta and DOGE or the ICE, Meta seems the lesser evil. OTOH, why work for someone evil at all? Aren’t enough jobs out there with ethical organisations that prioritise, or otherwise favour, common good?
qweiopqweiop · 53m ago
I'm curious, why Palantir as worse? As I understand it they are basically well very built data pipelines + dashboards + marketing. See here for example: https://www.wired.com/story/palantir-what-the-company-does/

Not try to defending them, but I do believe Meta is doing much more harm, purely based on Instagram for children.

JKCalhoun · 56m ago
I take it your answer then is, "There are worse places you could be working."
haute_cuisine · 1h ago
What makes you buy conventional dairy farmed products? It's clear how harmful it's for a well being of cows/calves.

What makes you buy chocolate from giant corps that have slave/child labour in their supply chain?

whiteboardr · 45m ago
You’re bringing up the topic of spending money mindfully while the question is about earning it.
croes · 59m ago
Everything anyone does is harmful for someone else. No matter of you eat meat or be a vegan.

But there are different kinds of harm.

zveyaeyv3sfye · 55m ago
> Everything anyone does is harmful for someone else.

That's wildly false.

Prove me wrong.

mrjay42 · 55m ago
haute_cuisine · 50m ago
I appreciate you linking the fallacies, but I don't think they're relevant here because answer to both questions (mine's and author's) is the same and I don't try to discredit the author, just offering to examine their own experience to better relate to people earning $500k/y at facebook.
JKCalhoun · 57m ago
Interesting topics for another thread.
dotcoma · 1h ago
They’re $connecting $the $world and $making $it a $better $place!
johannes1234321 · 53m ago
Quite a good pay, maybe an environment individuals like and "I am not working on the bad stuff!"
QuadmasterXLII · 1h ago
At this point meta’s reputation is bad enough that, just by supply and demand, they must be paying a premium for worse performers
tock · 59m ago
I think people know they are making the world a worse place. But the salaries are insanely high. It wont change until society frowns upon the job. Also it makes the world worse through second order effects so its easy to not think about it.
jihadjihad · 55m ago
Dump truck loads of cash?
bell-cot · 11m ago
It's wonderful to imagine all the world's employers embodying "Don't Be Evil". And any exceptions being driven out of business by their employees quitting.

At times and in places, many of the young and optimistic have been able to believe that. Or at least to proclaim such beliefs - without immediately being called on it.

But similar to "Santa Clause won't bring presents to naughty boys and girls" - that ain't how the real world actually works. And the usual social convention for those "in the know" to allow young optimists to figure things out for themselves. "Don't spoil their youthful joy, the world is shitty enough as it is." );

ceejayoz · 1h ago
Upton Sinclair: "It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends on his not understanding it."
baal80spam · 54m ago
You must be incredibly naive or idealistic, or possibly both.
throwawaysleep · 33m ago
I don't but I would if they had remote anymore.

I am unwilling to bear the burdens of fixing a society that doesn't give a shit and asks me to pay the price while they continue not to care.

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tasoeur · 52m ago
Back when Meta was still called Facebook, I was in a spot where I had a few offers (including Meta) and the reason why I picked it was the following:

- cool project that is somewhat not related to shady stuff (Oculus)

- cool people I knew there

- I got down-leveled, so money was just a small % bump to my previous salary

I ended up quitting after less than a year due to said toxic culture and a bunch of other reasons.

Meta employees had (has?) this little stat on your profile page that gives you a title based on how long you were there. Staying 4 years gave you the title of "Mercenary". I think it speaks by itself :-)

Honestly speaking, some people actually thrive in the Meta culture and end up making bank with repeated promotions, but they are also clearly able to abstract the ethical side of things to focus on maximizing impact at all cost.

spacecadet · 53m ago
People still work at facebook? Figured they had fired all the humans and zuck just screams into an AI echo chamber.
croes · 57m ago
quotation from Bertolt Brecht: "Food comes first, then ethics.“
xenospn · 1h ago
1. Money 2. Most people couldn’t care less
JKCalhoun · 54m ago
There's money elsewhere. The presumption is that "you" are a talented engineer and employable at any number of FAANG companies (or whatever the anagram is these days).
chistev · 52m ago
It's the money.
phelddagrif · 1h ago
Cognitive dissonance.
herbst · 1h ago
If we're still at Facebook before this you've been brainwashed into so many other bullshit ideas that this AI thing doesn't seem as out of the place.

Their whole idea of the metaverse was purely toxic, so is their idea about social media.

naikrovek · 1h ago
money. money will make almost anyone blind to what they're doing.