Ask HN: Has anyone been able to overcome crippling executive dysfunction?

18 justanything 16 5/22/2025, 12:01:49 AM
Suffering from overwhelming executive dysfunction along with a lot of other shit has drastically slowed my learning and operational capability. Have tried a ton of antidepressants and vyvanse, nothing's worked.

Looking for some success stories of people who overcame something like this.

Comments (16)

fellowniusmonk · 6m ago
I did about 10 years ago but unless my underlying cause was the same as yours I'm not sure it will help.

Anti depressants and vyvanse? Do you have adhd or are you depressed or both? I don't have adhd and mine was caused by depression and life circumstance at the time.

dotdashdashdash · 18m ago
Unfortunately, it will likely require hard work on your part rather than relying on pills. One thing that's worked for me is therapy focusing on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Essentially, you identify your goals and values, and then reframe your thinking to question whether what you're doing aligns with those goals and values.

Depending on what you struggle with, try batching tasks. I used to have a long list of things to remember to do regularly (wash up, clear the bench, put the kids' toys away, etc.), and I would often ignore it because it became annoying. All I did was change it to a plain note that I can look at and see if the task was completed, and eventually those tasks became a habit.

adamwk · 1h ago
Yeah I’ve had that in various forms through my life. I’m now in probably my best state. One thing that helped was switching from vyvanse to concerta. I don’t know why but vyvanse didn’t really help. It just made me hyper focus on anything but work.

Another is starting a new job. I don’t think I realized how bored or burnt out I was until I left and joined a new company.

Other than that all the basics: sleep, food, and exercise.

But it’s hard when it gets bad. The only other advice is have a good therapist and psychiatrist that you trust.

justanything · 33m ago
I did consult both a therapist and psychiatrist and they tried helping me but with no success, the therapist did refer me to other mental health professionals to get psychological testing done.
GianFabien · 3h ago
Been there many times on different consulting gigs.

I presume you are not part of the executive suite. If so -- get out!

When in the trenches, I have found the best approach is to recognize that you can't change "them". It is not personal and you certainly need to look upon it all as absurdist theatre. Read some Albert Camus or Jean Paul Sartre to realize that your experience if far from unique.

You don't need medication; just shift your viewpoint.

yen223 · 3h ago
I think "executive dysfunction" refers to a psychological thing, not a "bosses are bad" thing
BOOSTERHIDROGEN · 2h ago
Even off topic, I’m curious do you have any first experience that someone or even you, able to overcome the dysfunction? If all situation is the same why would someone able to overcome i.e story of gladiator etc.
klooney · 1h ago
The gruesome twosome are very helpful, if controversial:

- get enough sleep

- get regular exercise (most days of the week)

justanything · 34m ago
I honestly tried that for the last few months but it did not help at all, and I am back deep in the pit of despair.
interstice · 1h ago
1) diagnose, are you burned out or depressed, or adhd etc? Then 2) treat accordingly, concerta and sleep does wonders for me
justanything · 37m ago
I haven't ever worked hard enough because of my executive dysfunction to be worked out, and I am ashamed of that.

Don't have adhd, could be depressed possibly but since this has been a lifelong thing, as long as I have been, can't be sure if i am depressed because of the dysfunction or dysfunctional because of depression.

thw09j9m · 3h ago
No. Getting worse with time as well.

I recently decided to double up on my Vyvanse dose (without telling my doctor), and that was effective. For a day.

justanything · 39m ago
This is terrifying for me, how are you handling it? I don't think I can live like this, I am so behind on everything because I can't get myself to do anything.
rickmode · 1h ago
See a psychologist or counselor. If you an underlying diagnosis, you could be suffering more than necessary.
fidotron · 3h ago
I think Andreas Kling behind Serenity OS, and now the Ladybird Browser, has broadly the right ideas, and Serenity OS is actually named after https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Prayer .

You might be burned out, especially if you're experimenting with substances to try and maintain previous momentum. Some people can seemingly do that for years, but for most people it's going to end in a crash at some point.

notaharvardmba · 2h ago
Reframe and reset your viewpoint. Look at the past five years; What value have you created? What mistakes have you made? What have you learned? Then turn that into a new reason Why you are doing what you’re doing.