The Pain of Perfectionism

3 mitchbob 2 8/5/2025, 10:12:56 PM newyorker.com ↗

Comments (2)

WarOnPrivacy · 5h ago
In my experience, a quest to be perfect is a quest to be simple and thoughtless.

When perfection is assumed (typically w/o evidence) to be the best outcome, it dismisses the need for evaluation and consideration. Collateral damage is an acceptable cost by default and nuance is a distraction to be buried.

I think perfect can be well compared to a rainbow's end. It is a mirage, seen only at a distance but can not be traveled to. It is nowhere and nothing.

Lastly, perfect is not the same thing as best. And even best is (at best) a broad indicator of where a better outcome might be. It has value as a direction to go. Perfect has not even that.

mitchbob · 6h ago